ok, we starting trying to concieve on oct 13, my oct cycle ended up being 3 days of spotting which was 4 days after the missed period. Novembers menstral cycle never came, although at home tests were negitivie i believed i was preggo (with my son i couldnt pass an at home test until 8 weeks). i went to my dr on Nov 21,they took blood, urine and ultrasound and said youre not preggo. on Wednesday,Nov 30 ,7 at home tests said positive. on sunday december 3 i began to bleed (but not in any pain), i was not alarmed because i did have a full menstral cycle while preggo with my son. Monday my hcg level was 7 which is usually a week or so along. monday night the bleeding was down to just spotting without any pains. Today (wednesday dec 7) my hcg are down to a 2. dr says i had or am having a miscarriage. im in no pain and really do not believe that. my mom went threw this and they told her she miscarried but 4 weeks later was actually still preggo so my question is, am i remaining hopeful in vain? could this still be a pregnancy? how long should i wait to determine this? and if it is how long do i have to wait to try and concieve again? up until this i really loved my obgyn but now im feeling like they are neglecting me by not actually seeing me. i know that in some cases there were twins attatching to the uterus and 1 doesnt attach which causes a drop in hcg? anyone been threw this or maybe have some insight that can help my nerves and my heart?