I dont know if this is the correct forum to post in but it feels like it to me. either way...i need a place to vent and this feels like the right place to do it.

I have my daughter at 17. it was a normal healthy pregnancy with the exception of horrid morning sickness. delivery went well with no medical issues. now, at 23, it seems like im going crazy trying to have my 2nd child.

i got a BFP back in august and determined i was about 6-8weeks along. things were going fine until the cramping started. i went to the ob and they did and u/s and didnt see anything (not good for how far along i should have been). nothing. a week after that i had a "chemical pregnancy". the dr told me i would be fine and should have a successful pregnancy next time around. well...here come november and once again i get a BFP. i would have been around 4-6 weeks this time. same thign happens..cramps and then bleed. dr once again says chemical pregnancy. once again...the egg did not implant and i get to deal with the disappointment.

now ive had check up and the dr says its all "bad timing". apparently the fact that i have one healthy kid and my husband has had kids (1 passed away 2 days after birth @ 34 weeks bc of his ex not taking bedrest seriously and 1 happy healthy 2 year old) that neither of us are infertile.

SO WHY THIS IS GETTING PREGNANT THING SO HARD? AND WHY THE MULTIPLE CHEMICAL PREGNANCIES?

i just feel so hopeless. now its april and we're getting ready to try again after giving my body some time to rest. i just need some....HOPE. and its getting hard to find..

help?